Women by nature much more sensitive than men. Even the most reserved representatives of the fair sex can cry over a sad film while no one is watching.
And when it comes to falling in love, you can see a woman in love a mile away. How to find out if a girl loves you?
Her gait, her appearance changes, her eyes begin to glow with happiness, inspiration appears and It's like getting a second wind. At such a time, a woman in love can move mountains.
What does it mean to truly love? Find out about this from ours.
Psychology of a woman in love
How many different thoughts and feelings fall upon a woman in love.
Involuntarily she begins to change her behavior, gets sentimental, her thoughts are completely occupied with the object of her sympathy. Sexual fantasy does not sleep at such moments.
People suffering from such addiction become completely immersed in their partner's life, while losing himself as an individual.
They constantly think about what happened to their partner, why he/she doesn’t call, “maybe something happened, it’s probably worth buying a ticket to Vladivostok right now, where he/she is on a business trip, and fly there.”
Dependent Relationships- unecological relationships, they can only destroy and destroy, they will not bring anything good.
There are a number of signs that indicate that a woman is in a dependent relationship:
Signs of a woman in love:
Some special situations require analysis of your partner's behavior(in addition to the standard signs of falling in love, additional evaluation criteria are required).
How can you tell if a wife loves her husband?
Despite the fact that men sometimes seem cold and reserved, they also want to know if their beloved has reciprocal feelings for them, Is that spark still there in the relationship?, which burned between you in the first years after the wedding.
There are several characteristic signs that confirm that your wife still loves you:
How do you know if you are loved or used? Psychologist's answer:
How can you tell if a girl is in love but is hiding it?
In fact, you just need to observe the behavior of this girl. Some standard signs of falling in love appear involuntarily, they are quite difficult to control, so even the most reserved young lady can be “caught red-handed.”
- girl in love, but hiding her feelings often embarrassed, shyly lowers her eyes, quickly looks away if she notices that her lover is also looking at her;
- the girl begins to worry very cutely, on her cheeks a slight blush appears, if the conversation is about feelings or her lover, she begins to change the topic of the conversation or even answers something out of place in a trembling voice;
- the girl becomes overly constrained and modest. She may be speechless when talking to the object of her adoration and even literally run away from him if their paths intersect.
Love is amazing feeling. It can transform a person beyond recognition in a matter of days.
Girls in love are especially susceptible to such changes.
You can understand whether a girl is in love or not by taking a closer look at her behavior. Some characteristic features will help determine this.
How do you know that a girl loves you? 14 signs:
Do you love her?
Maybe...
Does she know about this?
No.
So tell her quickly
As soon as dawn comes.
As soon as she's around,
And you will be alone
Give her a hint with a sweet look -
She will be doubly pleased.
But if suddenly everything goes wrong,
Hopes will go out in flames
You shouldn't suffocate the pain with rum,
There's no need to be sad, in my opinion.
Do you love her?
Yes.
Does she know about this?
No.
How long will you wait?
There is no point in keeping everything to yourself.
Who knows, maybe today
She will move, disappear, leave.
Or maybe some other trap -
An arrow will hit her heart.
However, this arrow will be someone else's,
So you better not wait, idiot.
Do you love her?
Strongly!
Does she know about this?
No.
Your indecision has turned around
A couple of wasted years!
Advice won't help here.
You're a fool for not telling her
Only fools can
Wait forever for passions to heat up.
Your soul is attached to her.
You really need her.
But you moved away from her
Taking care of your recognition.
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In the article, I will tell you how to understand that a girl loves (has serious feelings) for a man...
I will talk about real things = which reflect the real situation of love in girls/women.
The women themselves write/speak/tell, etc. and so on. about love and feelings, frankly speaking = nonsense, which does not reflect the real state of affairs at all. In addition, women are, let’s say, very distant creatures and only a fool would listen to them. Jokes aside, a woman can say one thing, think another, and do something else altogether. This is what women are. Understand?
She is friends with one, dates another, and sleeps with a third. This is what women are. I’m showing you this as an example so that you understand what women are and why you shouldn’t listen to them.
If you, man, are a naive oaf, you will continue to fall for all this womanish nonsense. And if not, you are welcome. I will tell you about real things, without lies and falsehood, otherwise, as usual...
Those who have experience with girls/women understand what kind of creatures they are)) and how to interact with them. But! Most, alas, do not have such a complete picture of the world, and I had no idea either. But time passes and everything changes. As after this release, many will change :)
All the information is taken from real life experience, mine personally (not so much yet, but still) and professional men/women in relationships. There will be no water, nonsense, snot, emotions, etc. here.
If you, a man, after reading, do not find anything from what I described, do not be upset, and end this empty relationship without any regrets. I took too long with the introduction. All. Let's go.
No. 1. A loving girl is always faithful (devoted)
This is the NUMBER ONE item. Take my word for it, the girl/woman who experiences really serious real feelings for a man truly loves him, always (note the word, always, not temporarily) faithful (devoted) only to this one man. Dot.
Loyalty (devotion) will be there even in the event of separation (for example, due to quarrels, scandals, or for other reasons, such as a flight, army, business trip, etc., etc.). And we’re not talking about a week, two weeks, a month, but also about fairly long periods (a year or more), if there are any...
If this is not the case, there is no devotion (loyalty), this is not love, these are not serious feelings.
For a loving girl/woman there are no other men at all. Jokes aside. Hey, they're not interesting, at all, at all. Hey, only one man is interesting. The one she loves. All.
Loyalty = this is the #1 most basic feminine quality.
And a loving girl, truly loving, = she will not meet anyone there, accept advances, flirt, flirt, make advances, communicate, will not look at other men, will not make eyes at them, etc. and so on. she will stop communicating with old boyfriends (if any), acquaintances, etc., etc. understand the point - hey, no one is interested if she truly loves a specific man, you know? For her, there are no others = hey, only one is interesting.
A loving girl/woman wants to receive all the attention, courtship, care, affection, etc., etc. only from a loving man. It is important for her to be close to him and only him. The rest are not interesting. Dot.
No. 2. A loving girl is afraid of losing her man...
A loving girl/woman will always openly demonstrate to you, man, that she values you and the relationship with you. Hey you are important. Expensive. Understand?
In all quarrels, a loving girl/woman will make concessions, seek compromises, in order to resolve the quarrel/preserve the relationship with you. Understand? Hey, you are important, dear!
If this is not the case, it is not love. If she believes that she is always right in everything, and you are always this and that, bad, etc., etc., then there is no love (feelings) here and cannot be.
A loving girl/woman will not leave you, abandon you, slam the door, turn around and leave. Only a man can do this out of emotion)) but not a woman, they don’t have that. Loving girls are ALWAYS MORE AGREEING and COMPLIABLE. Always. Always. And again, always.
The thought of you leaving her, getting separated, or something happening to you = is unbearable for her.
A loving girl/woman will always be flexible, compliant, etc. she will make every effort to make you feel good with her, so that you are happy with her, so that you are close to her and not go anywhere, she will make every effort to maintain a relationship with you, to be close to you, so that you will be next to her, you know? You are extremely important and dear to her.
This is what love is for a loving girl/woman. Believe me. This is true.
Point No. 1. loyalty (devotion) is largely for the sake of this. For a man to be around, a woman must always be faithful to him. Because the No. 1 female quality is fidelity. It is extremely important for a man to understand that a woman is worthy. Because relationships are built only with worthy people. You can basically fuck with just anyone, it’s about nothing, but relationships are completely different, and more serious.
And a worthy woman is, first of all, a faithful (devoted) woman.
It is extremely important for a man to know and understand that no matter what happens, the girl/woman will always be by his side, will not betray him, will not leave for another, if anything happens (quarrels, scandals, will not leave him for profit, etc.), which in in the end, the children will be his (this man’s), and not the neighbor’s, Kolya, Vasya, Petya, etc., do you understand?
If there is no fidelity, it is not love. All these women's stories, questions, etc., in the style of, I love my husband, but I can’t leave my lover, I love that guy - but I sleep with another, etc. and so on. This is not love…
Guys, do you still listen to what women tell you? Ahaha. She can tell you anything, and if you are a naive oaf = then you will listen to her and be led. If this is the case for you, congratulations.
Decent men who are good with women understand perfectly well that listening to a girl/woman will only make you STUPID! She says one thing, thinks another, and does something else. There is no logic with it and there cannot be. Women don't follow logic. At all. That's it, absolutely.
In general, when we talk about love, real, real, serious feelings, then a woman automatically becomes faithful (devoted) to only one man. All. Dot.
This is a priori. I didn’t invent this, I made it up because I wanted it so or I think so... it’s a priori.
CONCLUSION: a loving girl/woman will always openly demonstrate to you, man, that she values you and the relationship with you. Hey you are important. Expensive. She doesn't want to lose you. She's afraid of losing you. And she does (attention, DOES, and will not do it once there, she does-do-does all the time) everything in order not to lose you, and to maintain a relationship with you.
No. 3 (combined with No. 2). She will change for you...
A loving girl/woman (who has serious feelings for a man) will change and become a better person for his sake. Literally bloom and never wither - never.
Again, remember the point above. Hey, you are important, dear. She values you and her relationship with you. She doesn't want to lose you. That's why she will want to be the best woman for her man.
She will change, become better, more beautiful, brighter, more attractive, kinder, more affectionate, she will take care of her figure, her body, beauty, I don’t know, the gym, proper nutrition, health, she will blossom in every sense of the word, in much for the sake of his man - so that he is happy with her and so that he feels good with her, and also so that he himself wants to be with this woman, i.e. to keep a man (point No. 2) with yourself. Understand? Everything is very interconnected...
A loving girl/woman will want to be worthy of this man, because she is his calling card, a man is judged by a woman, the kind of woman is the same as the man.
I talked about this in more detail in the main article:
A loving girl/woman will want a man to be only with her and no one else, and she will make every effort to keep it that way. Therefore, there will be point No. 2., and No. 1. and everything that follows too.
A loving girl/woman will want you, a man, to be proud of having the best girl/woman next to you, she will want to make you happy. Understand?
These are serious feelings (love). And if this is not the case, nothing has changed with your (male) appearance, she is what she was, and remains so, hey, it doesn’t matter, she doesn’t change, doesn’t blossom, doesn’t get better, ala style “I am who I am - I don’t like it” goodbye”, then this is not love...
If all this is not there, hey, don't care about you, rest assured, because a loving girl/woman will fight for you, with all her might, and above all, she will become the best in many ways for your sake.
If a girl/woman does not do anything for you, does not try for the sake of your comfort with her, for the sake of your happiness, does not change, does not become better, does not blossom, and no other points = this is not love.
If she behaves the way you want = this is not love..
The list can go on for a long time... I think you get the point.
CONCLUSION: A loving girl/woman will change for the sake of a man, becoming better, more beautiful, brighter, more attractive, kinder, more affectionate, more feminine, etc. and so on. because you are important, dear. She values you and her relationship with you. She doesn't want to lose you. Therefore, she will want to be the best woman for you, for her man, so that you, a man, are happy with her and so that you feel good with her, and also so that you yourself want to be with this woman. Everything is interconnected.
No. 4. You are number 1 for her. everything else is secondary...
Family = doesn't count. I think this is already clear to everyone. I'm talking about a few different things. Girlfriends, friends, hobbies, entertainment, studies, work, affairs, etc. all this is the life of any person, and for a loving girl/woman, this will all be secondary, less important, compared to you.
You will come first, man. That is, a loving girl/woman will sacrifice a lot for you. Hey you are important. Hey you are precious. She may sacrifice sleep in order to see you. She can leave her friends/girlfriends and be with you. She may change plans for you. She can leave everything and everyone, adjust, rearrange her schedule, etc., etc., all in order to see you, spend time with you. Well, etc. and so on. You understand? The girl sacrifices a lot for you.
She will SACRIFICE HER INTERESTS - FOR YOU (MAN).
Remember point number 1. again)) everything is interconnected. A loving woman wants to receive all the time, attention, courtship, care, affection, etc., etc. only from a loving man. And as much as possible 😀
If this is not the case, the girl does not sacrifice anything for you = this is not love. If hey girlfriends/friends are more important = this is not love. If you are not her priority, you are not important/dear, as a result, this is not love.
CONCLUSION: For a loving girl/woman, a man comes first. Everything else is secondary. Much less important compared to a man. Hence certain behavior on the female side. A loving girl/woman will sacrifice a lot for a man. And all because you are important, dear! Everything is essentially interconnected. I have already said this several times.
No. 5. She will invest resources in you(you are important/dear)
If the feelings are serious, if a girl loves a man, really, truly, she will invest in him, invest in him her time, her strength, her energy, even her money, etc., etc., do you understand?
5.1. She will help you
For a loving girl/woman = there is no division into “I” and “you”, there is us, together.
Therefore, she will perceive all problems/adversities/difficulties, etc., as joint, as common.
Therefore, a loving girl/woman will always try to help you.
Even if, in principle, she cannot help you in any specific way, she will give you moral support, she will be there and will not go anywhere, if something happens, and you will feel it inside yourself.
If this is not the case, it is not love. If she doesn’t care about your hardships, experiences, problems, etc. hey, you don’t care, there is no support from her, help, attention, etc. = this is not love.
If she thinks and cares only about herself, if she forces you to care only about her = without any reciprocity = ala style, I’m a princess - you’re on your own, deal with everything yourself = this is not love.
5.2. She gives you gifts/arranges surprises, etc.
I’m a princess, girl, so come on, woo me, you need sex, you owe me, you owe me, you owe me. A man must must must, look after me, give flowers, woo me blah blah blah. This is how I briefly described the behavior of a girl/woman who doesn’t love her.
Serious real relationships are when BOTH PARTNERS invest!
If a girl has serious feelings for a man, love, she will invest in him. In this regard, arrange various surprises for him, romantic things, give gifts, etc., etc.
Everything is interconnected. To a loving woman, you are dear and important. She wants to please you, this is how a woman demonstrates that she takes you seriously, you are important/dear and she wants to please you, give you pleasure, make you have positive emotions, a smile, happiness, you know?
Therefore, she will invest in you with all her soul, heart, sincerely, truly sincerely.
If this is not the case, she thinks only about herself, I am a princess, I am a girl, everyone owes me, a man should owe, but not about you = this is not love. I give you a 100% guarantee. Read also point No. 11.
5.3. She calls/texts you first/initiates communication in order to be with you and spend a lot of time...
Again, everything is interconnected. Remember point number 4. You are paramount to her.
A loving girl/woman wants to spend all her free time with you (the right man), wants to receive all the attention, affection, care, love, etc. from the right specific man.
Therefore, she herself will initiate communication with you, the man, that is, she will write to you first (this is most likely) or even call. Understand?
She will want to see you, spend time with you, communicate, go out, have fun, etc. and so on. understand, interest from a woman in spending time together clearly indicates that she definitely has feelings for the man (you). Serious feelings, real, love. Understand?
If all this is not there - ala style, I am a girl, a princess, a man must take the first step and in that spirit, these are not serious feelings, this is not love. If she is interested in you once a week, a month, for sex, when there is no one else, her friends are busy, or there is nothing to do = this is not love.
5.3.3. She will be nervous and worried if you ignore her.
For example, if you don’t answer calls / SMS because you didn’t see, didn’t notice, you’re very busy, loaded, a girl in love perceives such moments very keenly, take my word for it, the girl will think, hey, it will seem that you don’t need her , and all that you had was entertainment and nothing more. In the style, I shook it and threw it away. Briefly speaking. There will be worries, nerves, etc. 100% guarantee.
And this is a good sign. In terms of the fact that you are not indifferent. Important. Hey, it’s important, she’s worried and worried about where you went, why you don’t answer, she starts writing you message after message = these are all good signs, signs that the girl is in love with you.
5.4. She puts her inner self into you
She sincerely worries about you. She sincerely cares about you. Hey, you are not indifferent.
Hey, I care how you are, how you are, how your day was, where you were, who you were with, how you feel, is everything okay, etc. and so on. she wants you to share everything, everything and more everything with her :)
If she thinks exclusively about herself, you don’t care about her, you don’t bother her much = this is not love. Dot.
CONCLUSION (the final essence of the whole point No. 5): when a person is dear to you, important, you want him to be happy and you do everything (you invest time, energy, effort, money, etc., etc.) in order to make his loved one happy. That's all.
No. 6. She thinks about you a lot...
If a girl/woman has serious feelings (love) for a man, she will think a lot, almost constantly, about him...
If you, dear, don’t have something like that, you remember or think about him, I don’t know, rarely, or on holidays, or there only after work, when you have no one to be with/take a walk/f*ck with, etc. or there on weekends, etc., then this is not love. If we talk about love, real love, serious feelings, then you will think about your man almost constantly.
There will be a lot of thoughts in your head, you will be curious, wondering what he is there, where he is, who she is there with, what he is doing, how he is doing, is everything okay, is he thinking about you and so much more. You will have a lot of thoughts in your head regarding him. Important point. This will last a very long time (permanently).
If it stayed there for a day, two, three, a week, two = then this is not love, these are not serious feelings; if you think about him for a long time, on a regular basis, this indicates the seriousness of your feelings.
Another important point. If you are single - there is no competition for you among other men, then perhaps you just clung to this man - so that you have at least someone rather than nothing at all.
Here it is important not to deceive yourself, if you are really in demand among many men, but at the same time you still think and want exactly the same thing (others are not interesting) - this really means that you have serious feelings for him, really, even don't doubt it, not for a second.
When you have other options (men), but you still think about a specific man, constantly (think about him a lot), = this indicates that you have serious feelings for him.
No. 7. She's not lying to you...
When we talk about love, serious feelings, relationships = there is no place for lies.
Relationships are built on trust. If there is no trust or it is gone = this relationship is over.
Remember points No. 2 and No. 4. A loving girl/woman is afraid of losing a man, she doesn’t want to lose you, because you are important, dear, and she wants you to be next to her and not go anywhere.
Well, point number 4. you are number 1 (primary) for her. Briefly speaking. The point, I think, is clear.
CONCLUSION: a loving girl/woman does not lie to her man, because relationships are built on trust, and without trust, no relationship is possible in principle, a priori. That's why it is so.
No. 8. Combined with No. 7. She trusts you...
I repeat, relationships are built on trust. Without trust there is nothing.
A loving girl/woman trusts her man, and does not run behind his back and check where he is and what he is; does not check his phone/calls, does not conduct spying, etc.
But! At the same time, she can, or rather even will, share with her man her experiences regarding this point (on this part), i.e. she will not hide anything, if there is something bothering/disturbing/on her mind, she will speak directly and openly about it, because you are the most important and closest person to her. She has serious feelings for you. Love. Understand? Something like this…
No. 9. Female jealousy 🙂 (she is jealous of you)
All women are competitors to each other, in an evolutionary race (natural selection).
As soon as a girl/woman develops feelings for a man, she immediately begins to be jealous of this man for almost everyone. Because a loving woman perceives her partner as personal property... Therefore, look carefully at how your woman reacts to the fact that someone writes to you, calls you, or communicates with someone live, I mean, with female gender.
Look at her reaction, how she reacts, is she angry, is she upset, does she ask you questions regarding all this, well, you will understand from this part, jealousy is felt immediately.
Jealousy is not bad - it is even good, provided that it is adequate, occasionally and in a mild manner.
No. 10. Separation is a way to check...
A very good way to understand whether a girl/woman has serious feelings for you or not.
He is also good because he will show you her behavior, for example, will she be faithful to you to the end, what and how will she do to get you back and will she do it at all or will she kill you and that’s it.
If it scores, it’s not love. Because a loving girl will not allow this to happen, do not forget about point number 2. the thought that you will leave her, you will separate, or something will happen to you = is unbearable for her. A loving girl/woman is afraid of losing her man.
If she is not faithful (not devoted), this is also not love.
Don't forget point #1. a loving girl/woman is always faithful (devoted). And one more thing that is important. If there is no point No. 6. during separation = she doesn’t think about you much, doesn’t write/call/come/appear in your life/doesn’t try to get you back, etc. and so on. = this is not love.
The reason for separation can be different. Flight, business trip, army, quarrels, scandals, swearing, separation from each other, etc. things. Briefly speaking. The method is effective, and really reflects the real state of affairs associated with serious feelings...
No. 11. Reciprocity for a loving woman is not an empty phrase...
A loving girl/woman will always respond to any kindness of yours.
For your gift - to yours. For your attention - mine. To your action - to yours. Etc. and so on.
If this is not the case, it happens (for example, a man does and does everything for her, invests in her, gives her gifts, arranges surprises, invests all of himself, his desire, time, money, energy, strength, etc., etc.) - and the girl only receives, but does not give anything in return, does not make the man happy in return, there is no 100% reciprocity - this is not love.
Some individuals also claim that this is the absolute norm. I'm a girl. Princess. Everyone owes me. I need to be interested. Surprise. Pamper. To please. This is not love. I give 100% guarantee.
I repeat, love is when both partners are invested in each other. If this is not the case, one of the partners does not experience feelings. If you, a man, are everything, and she is nothing to you, this is not love.
No. 12. About sex, passion, joy, temptation, etc.
It’s probably no secret to anyone that sex is an integral part of a healthy, full-fledged relationship. Without quality and regular sex = no relationship is possible in principle. Sex is extremely important, especially for a man. We men are males, sex, fuck, mate, fuck, it’s in us. So... A loving girl/woman will think about your sexual satisfaction.
Everything, as I have said many times, is interconnected. A loving woman wants you to feel good with her, for you to be happy with her, for you to be next to her and not go anywhere, and sex in this regard is precisely one of the main elements of tying a man to herself, so she will make an effort all efforts in your sexual life. Lingerie, stockings, different places, positions, everything, everything, everything... in order to maintain a relationship with you, to be close to you, so that you can be close to her and be happy, you know?
If this is not the case, there is no quality and regular sex in your relationship (she doesn’t pamper you, doesn’t make you happy, doesn’t satisfy you, doesn’t try, doesn’t make an effort, etc., etc.) = hey, is it still satisfied? you or not = hey don’t care = as a result = feelings (love) are not here.
Conclusions,
1) A loving girl is always faithful (devoted) (even during a long separation, if any)
2) A loving girl is afraid of losing her man... (hey, you are important, dear)
3) A loving girl will change and become better (for the sake of a man)
4) For a loving girl, man is number 1. everything else is secondary...
5) A loving girl will invest resources in a man (time, effort, money, energy, etc.)
5.1. She will help you
5.2. She gives you gifts/arranges surprises, etc.
5.3. She calls/texts you first/initiates communication in order to be with you and spend a lot of time...
5.3.3. She will be nervous and worried if you ignore her.
5.4. She puts her inner self into you
In general, regarding point No. 5. when a person is dear to you, important, you want him to be happy and you do everything (you invest time, energy, effort, money, etc., etc.) in order to make his loved one happy. That's all.
6) She thinks about you a lot...
7) She doesn’t lie to you...
8) Combined with No. 7. She trusts you...
9) Female jealousy 🙂 (she is jealous of you)
10) Separation - as a way to check... (during separation, there should be points No. 1 and No. 6)
11) Reciprocity for a loving woman is not an empty phrase...
12) She satisfies you sexually and tries her best
Congratulations, administrator.
The fair sex is difficult to understand. Some girls hide their feelings under a mask of indifference, while others confess their love because of commercialism, although they do not feel anything. Secret signs that a girl really loves you.
Everyone wants to find love, but how to recognize it and will it be real? Modest girls love to be mysterious and hide their love from a man, although they have already fallen in love for a long time. And mercantile girls admit their feelings, although they do not love, but are simply looking for a profitable match. How to understand whether a girl truly loves you or not?
1. A girl loves if there are no secrets for her
The girl asks a lot of questions and wants to know absolutely everything. What is your favorite band, the amount of sugar in coffee, what was your name as a child, what are you doing tomorrow and do you like fishing? If a girl is interested in all this, then you are the most important part in her life. The girl also tells everything about herself. All women's secrets, dreams, doubts and emotions. It's like love.
2. A girl loves it if she clings to you
The girl cannot resist receiving a bit of tenderness from you and giving hers in return. Girlfriend loves to hold hands, hug, kiss, fool around and touch in 1000 different ways. She happily jumps into bed and takes off her panties as soon as you call, and does not try to sell sex in exchange for goodies.
3. A girl loves if she is jealous
When some woman appears next to her man, the girl begins to be jealous. This does not mean that she rushes to pull out her hair by the roots. The girl is rather a little agitated and dissatisfied. Jealous means he loves.
4. A girl loves if she gives all her time
The girl wants to date as often as possible, and does not have one or two regular dates a week. She rearranges her schedule and is freed from work if a man invites her to go for a walk. In her organizer, you are a priority.
5. A girl loves it if she is attentive to details
A friend gives cards, sends ridiculous messages, arranges surprises, sings songs to you, writes notes, helps in various matters and takes care of you. A girl truly loves if she is attentive to the little things.
6. A girl loves it if she gives compliments
Does the girl praise and compliment you with enviable regularity? She really likes you, and she is your biggest fan. That's why she likes your new jacket, your ability to play the guitar, your hairstyle and everything else.
7. A girl loves if she “sees” only you
You can be in a crowd, but be just the two of you. A girl loves it if she focuses all her attention on you, and does not wander her eyes out of boredom or curiosity.
8. A girl loves it if she wants to get to know your surroundings
The girl wants to get to know your immediate circle: friends and relatives. She makes an effort to please and seeks approval. Besides, she introduced you to her friends, and maybe even her family.
9. A girl loves it if her body says so.
Body language is very difficult to hide and difficult to control. The girl shows with her whole body that she adores and loves you. She runs to the meeting as soon as she sees you. Her eyes are burning, her face is shining, and the smile does not leave her face. When a girl loves, she shines when her man is nearby.
10. A girl loves it if she says it spontaneously
A loving person cannot hold back words of love in some pleasant moments and surges of tenderness. The girl confesses her love spontaneously, confused in her words and worried. This is definitely love.
Do these 10 signs match yours? The girl definitely loves you...
Love is an extremely subjective feeling and concept, but everyone who has fallen into its network can confidently say that there is nothing more beautiful and desirable in the world. However, how not to be mistaken in your feelings and recognize the first “symptoms” of love fever? It's no secret that infatuation, infatuation, passion and love have similar characteristics. And it is extremely difficult to see the difference, because the difference lies deep inside us. How to understand whether you still love a person or not? Let's answer a few important questions and understand what is hidden behind the irresistible craving for the chosen one.
First of all, you need to think about why this question arose in the first place. Where did this idea come from? It's quite simple. At the beginning of a relationship, when the candy-bouquet romance “blooms and smells,” the girl or guy does not doubt their own feelings at all - we are firmly convinced that we love this person!
However, after a few months (or weeks), the rose-colored glasses fall off, and the lover begins to wonder how much his chosen one corresponds to the ideal. Are emotions real? Maybe it's just sympathy? In this case, feelings fade into the background, and the calculating mind is in the center. He seeks to cool the fervor of our emotions, taking care, among other things, of a heart that may break. The voice of reason is a good phenomenon, indicating a healthy human psyche.
The concept of “love” is unique and individual, since everyone loves in their own way. However, common features are common to all people without exception: love is something good, warm, expensive, associated with a feeling of comfort when your chosen one is nearby.
Signs of love
Finding out whether you really love a person is not always easy or simple. What to do? Take off your rose-colored glasses and try to look at your own relationships from the outside with maximum honesty. There is no need to listen to friends and “well-wishers”! So, the symptoms of true love:
- Unselfishness. True love is a selfless feeling. If a man or woman is looking for benefits, constantly waiting for the chosen one to do something for him or, especially, help him financially, there is no need to talk about love. These are not emotions, but use.
- Sexual attraction. Can true love exist without sex? It’s difficult to say, since everyone hears about so-called platonic love, which does not imply physical contact. However, many psychologists are confident that love is always combined with sexual attraction, which is completely natural. Along with the desire to possess, a person in love wants to see and hear the chosen one, to be nearby just like that, not because of the satisfaction of “animal” instincts.
- Unconditional acceptance. To love is to accept a partner with all his advantages and disadvantages. A person in love does not seek to remake the chosen one to suit his patterns. Do you want to change something about your dear friend? Most likely, this is not love.
- Confidence. The ability to trust a loved one is an important indicator of true love. If you are used to sharing your problems and joys with your partner, you are not afraid that you will not be understood or laughed at, this is SHE. Incomplete trust is one of the signs that you still do not love this person.
- Consistency. True love differs from falling in love in that it is not influenced by any external circumstances. For example, if relatives and friends oppose the chosen one, a loving person will defend his opinion and feelings. In addition, real emotions do not change plus to minus, even if the partner turned out to be far from perfect.
- Sacrifice. Love implies the willingness to sacrifice oneself for the sake of the one whom the heart considers the best person in the world. Sacrifice does not imply the desire to receive anything in return, the most important thing is moral satisfaction from the happiness of a loved one.
Several ways to understand if you are in love
Of course, we would need some kind of indicator that would allow us to determine whether it is love or not. However, wise scientists have not yet invented such a device, which is why we will “identify” interest, affection, sex, sympathy and love according to certain signs and parameters.
Method No. 1. Test
Can't understand your own experiences and feelings? Answer a few simple questions:
- Do you think about him (her) before falling asleep, do you want to wish him pleasant dreams?
- Are you trying to make him happy?
- Do you feel good and calm next to your chosen one?
- When you think about him, smile, blush and get excited?
- Are you counting the hours until you meet him?
- Do you consider him the best man (woman)
- You know about all his shortcomings, but continue to accept him for who he is?
- Does being separated from him for a long time worry you?
If you answered a confident “yes” to all the questions, congratulations, your feelings are sincere. If you feel unsure about the answers, it’s worth thinking about it. Remember that the test should be taken in your normal state, avoiding special joys and quarrels.
Method number 2. Pros and cons
A common psychological method is to divide a sheet of paper into two columns and write down the positive and negative qualities of your chosen one. This way you can get your real attitude towards him and a vision of his personality.
Analyze the number of pros and cons. What is your loved one made of? Advantages or disadvantages? The predominance of positive qualities is another joyful evidence of your love and good attitude towards your partner.
Method number 3. Meditation
It is more comfortable to sit in a soft chair, on a carpet that is pleasant to your body - you will have to spend half an hour on it. In addition, there should be no distractions or extraneous thoughts. It is easier to enter a “trance” by focusing on your own breathing.
Having calmed down and detached yourself from extraneous thoughts, imagine this person. Happened? How do you feel? Do you want to come up, kiss, hug, or run away? Decide on all your feelings (negative and positive) that arise when the image of your loved one appears.
Method number 4. “He is no more”
Quite a cruel, but effective technique. Try to imagine that your chosen one is no longer with you (no need to get hung up on this idea). Or perhaps you've never dated at all. What are you thinking about? Are such representations comfortable? Or perhaps they only bring you pain and discomfort? We understand the significance of a thing or person when we no longer possess it. The result of reflection will be an understanding of what feelings you have for your chosen one.
Love or affection?
Another common question: how can you understand whether you love a person or is it just affection? First of all, you need to understand that pure relationships and emotions are almost never found. Love, jealousy, sexual attraction, desire, affection - we experience all this at the same time, but only in different proportions.
As we said above, selfless care is considered an important sign of true love. Attachment is considered a kind of psychological dependence on a chosen one or partner.
The main feature of attachment is not selflessness and happiness, but dependence and sometimes the suffering that a dependent person experiences. If attachment is accompanied by special feelings that deprive a person of freedom, we can talk about psychological obsession.
So, understanding your true emotions and experiences is sometimes quite difficult. But if you are firmly convinced of the correctness of your own choice, you should not doubt your chosen one. Love is the most beautiful feeling that should be enjoyed, especially if it is mutual. Love and be loved!
