The boomerang effect in real life situations. The boomerang effect: how this law of the Universe works. What scientists say

Hello, dear readers of my blog! Have you heard that everything in life comes back like a boomerang? Do you know how rich folk wisdom is in sayings on this topic? For example, “As you sow, so shall you reap”, “As it comes around, so it will respond”, “Don’t spit in the well, otherwise you’ll have to drink water from it”... And they are all for good reason, because this boomerang law does exist. If only because the entire Universe consists of laws that operate continuously and which we cannot influence.

Features and general information

Both ancient thinkers and modern scientists were interested in this topic, and even psychology and religion did not ignore this issue. No one has been able to unravel the secret of this law for sure, but one thing is clear - it has no time limits. That is, if you have done something unforgivable towards another person, you should not expect retribution immediately. Sometimes it happens that misdeeds affect the descendants, to whom not only the knowledge accumulated by the family is passed on, but also sins, because there is a connection between generations.

Another feature is that the return reaction does not come from the person to whom you did good or evil. It also tends to increase. A very important principle that some people miss is that the boomerang even works on our thoughts. Yes, yes, remember, I told you that thoughts are material(), energetically charged and equated to actions?

That is, if you thought very badly about someone and mentally wished for the worst, this already symbolizes action. The universe will hear the message, only the charged energy will return to its owner. Even if you helped another person, but at that moment you didn’t want it at all, then it will be the negativity that you experienced at that moment that will return. Therefore, it is important to defend your boundaries and gently say “no” to others if you really don’t want to do something. You should not commit violence against yourself and at the same time receive punishment.

The law has its own formula, which looks like this

  • Everything good you do will come back to you threefold;
  • Everything bad you do will come back to you tenfold.

There is such a big difference because it is to motivate a person to do good deeds, for which he will receive encouragement.

There are cases when a person follows this principle, tries to think positively and does not harm others, but in life something is still not as one would like. Then, of course, the easiest way is to doubt the probability of the Universe’s operation and wonder whether this law really exists? I have an answer to this question. The fact is that if we expect benefit, the opposite situation will happen. Can a person who helped a disadvantaged person be called an altruist and waits for recognition from others, or even demands it, accusing him of heartlessness?

The most important rule is to think positively, learn to notice the good in your life, because happiness comes from small grains of joy. Be grateful for every day you live, appreciate what you have, it is necessary first of all for you. If your thinking style begins to change to a positive one, you will be in a good mood, then the desire to do something nasty to someone else will not arise, and accordingly, encouragement will come. The Universe loves those who know how to appreciate and enjoy life, giving warmth to others.

Good

Do good every day, even a smile sometimes works wonders because it is a powerful support. Just set a rule for yourself to do something good and pleasant every day, not only for yourself, but also for others. Then the world will give you back over time, as they say. And before going to bed, remember how productive your day was.

Envy

Envy is a motivating feeling when there is a desire to possess something that another has. It motivates us to take action; we can say that envy develops us. This is only the case when a person understands that it is necessary to make efforts to achieve the same result, and is ready for activity. But, unfortunately, sometimes it happens that for some reason it’s easier to get angry at someone else. Then envy destroys, and not only because you have to hold back feelings of anger, irritation, and maybe resentment at fate, but also because all this energy will later come back. There is only one way out - work on yourself, if you want - move towards your dream, take action, get up every time you fall, and over time you will come to your dream.

Revenge

You shouldn't take revenge if you've been hurt. Believe me, holding onto resentment and anger will only harm your body; there is a risk of getting diseases such as ulcers, headaches, tooth decay, heart problems, etc. If the truth is on your side, over time the Universe itself will punish the offender. You only need to find a safe way to relieve negative energy, for example, creativity or sports can help. Then it will be easier to forgive and let go of the situation in order to move on with your life, without carrying around an unnecessary burden in the form of the image of the person who offended you.

Many people know about the boomerang law. What is done comes back, good is good, and evil is well-deserved trouble. Knowing the simple laws of the Universe, you can get more from life and live much happier.

What is the boomerang law

This law states that any action you perform will definitely be returned threefold. Just as a boomerang always returns to its owner, so our actions will return to us after some time.

This law is very ancient, and our ancestors successfully applied it, only it received its name “boomerang law” later. A similar idea has been mentioned in the Bible and other scriptures. It says to treat others the same way you want to be treated. That is why we need to stop doing some things that we may regret in old age. Or much earlier - it all depends on how soon the next boomerang launched towards the Universe will return.


The thought is material. However, some stubbornly continue to deny this and refuse to see the connection between their thoughts and what is happening around them. The boomerang law works in a similar way - it materializes expectations. The way you treat other people will certainly come back to you multiplied. Therefore, if you wish harm on someone, then expect a retaliatory strike from Fate. Moreover, the return reaction can come from a completely different person. If you do good, then it comes back to you tripled. And again, not necessarily from the same person.

But why then are not all people happy when they do good?

The whole point is that you need to do good deeds selflessly, without expecting anything in return. Only then does the boomerang law work. Again, a lot depends on our thoughts. In psychology, this is called positive or negative thinking, which leads to poverty or abundance. Therefore, if you do a good deed, but in your thoughts it is unpleasant for you to help this person, then not the good that you did will return to you, but all the negativity that you were thinking about at that moment.

Surely each of you has at least once had a case in your life when you did something bad, and “life punished” you for it with some kind of trouble. Or, on the contrary, you did a good deed, and a “reward” followed. Remember, something like this probably happened! Or they told you, don’t do bad things, otherwise God will punish you!

So, friends, there really is no “punishment” or “reward.” No one “up there in heaven” judges us or “punishes” us with all sorts of troubles. In reality, everything is much simpler and more functional. This is one of the laws of the Universe - the Boomerang Law.

Its essence can be explained this way: everything that you put into the world will definitely come back to you.

The Boomerang Law is not a human earthly law that can be circumvented or deceived. He doesn't evaluate you or your actions. It just works in such a way that you receive from the Universe exactly what you put into the world. And here we are talking not so much about material objects (although, of course, they are also present in this “exchange”), but about positive or negative energy.

If you give positive energy, that is, you do a good deed for someone, sincerely help, wish someone happiness, good luck, goodness, then the same positive energy returns to you. But it can come to you in the form of money or a lucky coincidence of circumstances, help, or a gift. Any successful person knows that before you try to get something, you must give something! It may not be money, but, for example, knowledge or some kind of help.


The Boomerang Law also applies to negative energy in the same way. You showed aggression, anger, wished something bad for someone. And all this comes back to you in the form of illnesses, problems, retaliatory aggression, etc. Therefore, if some kind of trouble suddenly happens to you, analyze what you could do to cause such a response. Exactly the answer! Because nothing JUST happens in this world! Remember this well!


Retribution comes not only for actions, but also for thoughts. Thought is material, and that is a fact. There is even a good proverb: “Think before you think.” A very apt statement, especially considering that many people have never encountered the concept of “thought hygiene.” Constant despondency and a negative attitude towards the world poison the life of every person; these emotions also fall under the boomerang rule. “Don’t make others angry, and don’t make yourself angry” - this is precisely the principle one should act by in society, so as not to get a good “slap on the head” from the Universe.

If a person is constantly worried about something, is dissatisfied with something, or is afraid of something, then sooner or later all his fears will come true. Yes, in life there is always a place for experiences, but you should not elevate them to the status of obsessions.

LIFE IS A BOOMERANG.

This leads to:
What you give out will come back.
What you sow is what you reap,
Your lie will come through as a lie.

Every action matters;
Only by forgiving will you receive forgiveness.
You give - they give to you,
You betray - you are betrayed,
You offend - you are offended,
You respect - You are respected...
LIFE IS A BOOMERANG:

Everyone deserves everything;
Black thoughts will return as an illness,
Bright thoughts - Divine light...
If you haven't thought about it, think about it!!!

Sweet revenge

If someone has offended a person, there is no need to harbor a grudge or try to take revenge. It's better to just wish everyone well and move on. Of course, sometimes it is difficult to erase from life what caused pain, but if you focus on this moment, you can miss your happiness. And revenge is also not the best solution. Even if we assume that the “retaliatory strike” strategy was successfully implemented, a person cannot say for sure that in the future he will not make a similar mistake, and he will definitely not be revenged in the same way.

Let's say there is a situation: a girl got a job as a secretary. She had to become her boss's mistress because she didn't want to lose her job. Her boss is a family man, and he has a very strict wife, but this does not stop the man from going “to the left.” After some time, the girl comes to her boss so that he signs documents about her going on maternity leave.

The man could not come to terms with the fact that his subordinate had an affair and decided to fire her without severance pay. The girl threatened to tell everything to his wife. The boss began to beg not to destroy the family. Although the expectant mother was offended by such an attitude, she did not resort to extreme measures and was still fired. A few years later, this girl became not only a happy wife and mother, but also a successful entrepreneur.

One day she met her former boss. He was not going through the best period in his life, and he threatened her that he would tell the press that the now respected businesswoman had a relationship with her own boss in the past. The woman began to beg him not to ruin her life, and he disappeared. Like her in her time, the man remained silent. This is an excellent example of how the boomerang law can operate in relationships between people. In addition, everything might not have turned out so well if the girl had taken revenge on her boss at one time. Yes, he would have found himself in an unpleasant situation, but how would her life have turned out then?!


Life itself knows who and how to punish. And a person should not think that if he stole something, then his valuable thing will be lost. Consequences for actions never equal the amount of harm caused. The payoff is always much greater than the damage caused. For example, if a person insults someone, he may get into an accident. If you hit someone, something could be stolen from him, or a fire could happen in the house. What a person values ​​most always becomes the object that will be affected first by the boomerang rule.


Now, knowing about the Law of Boomerang, you can take a more clear approach to creating your life, your own reality. It happens that sometimes you really want to take out your irritation on someone, blame, scold. Please can you do this. BUT! But now you know that you will DEFINITELY receive an equivalent answer! Is it worth it to indulge your irritation if you can get, for example, illness in response?!

By following this law, you can attract all kinds of benefits to yourself by giving something good into the world. By the way, it doesn’t necessarily have to be something material (this is me answering the frequently asked question: “What if I don’t have anything at all right now, what can I give away, what should I do?”)! You can use one very interesting (and most importantly, useful and really working) technique - give people gifts MENTALLY!

How? And it's very simple! You should imagine yourself approaching a person and giving them something! You just have to do this completely sincerely and with the kindest and purest thoughts! Only in this case will there be any benefit from this action (that is, the return will return to you). What to give? Anything!!! This is your imaginary gift. This means you can imagine absolutely everything! Feel like a genie or a goldfish!

Give wads of money, bouquets of flowers, luxury cars, houses, yachts, tropical islands! You can, for example, give a person health. Imagine it yourself somehow, for example, in the form of a golden glow, enveloping a person and pouring strength and energy into him! The main thing is that you yourself imagine how people feel joy from your gifts, how good they feel! Who can you do all this with? With whomever you want - friends, relatives, complete strangers on the street, etc.


I like to do this exercise when I'm walking down the street. I give gifts to people I meet in this way, trying to determine in a few seconds what would bring this person the greatest joy. Here comes a girl - I mentally “give” her a gorgeous fur coat. For a second, an image appears of her happy and joyful, looking in the mirror in this fur coat! Positive!

Here is a terribly busy man with a cell phone, clearly solving some problems. I gift him with a vacation on a tropical island. The image is of him in a hammock with a cocktail in his hand, admiring the sea and enjoying the peace. Positive again! I'm moving on. An old lady with a bag, a mother with a child, a couple in love. Everyone gets their gifts! And by the end of the street I am so saturated with positivity that my mood soars somewhere in the sky!

I really love this technique. Firstly, it requires practically nothing from you except imagination. Secondly, you lift your spirits because the act of giving is extremely enjoyable in itself! Well, thirdly, in this way you give out your positive energy into the world, which means you attract all sorts of benefits (and material ones too!!!) to yourself!

By the way, don’t be afraid that you will give away too much of your energy. There is one very interesting feature here - when you radiate positivity, you yourself become more and more energetic. But when there is negativity, your energy decreases! Don't ask me why this happens. Honestly I do not know. But the fact remains a fact, regardless of whether we know “why it works like that?” It works and that's it! :))


This story happened to my uncle. Events began in the mid-80s, names have been changed.
My uncle is a prominent, educated, intelligent man. He worked as the director of a furniture store. He enjoyed great success with women, which he enjoyed with pleasure. He had a kind-hearted wife and two teenage boys. His wife felt sorry for him throughout his life, treating him like an older, spoiled child, forgiving him for his pranks. She worked as a school director, while maintaining a good attitude towards students. Her name was Nina, and her uncle's name was Ruslan.
But my uncle had to pay in full for such a life. He met a woman who was not happy with the fact that he was married. Her name was Larisa. Another hobby turned everything upside down. She literally began to chase him, stood under the windows of their apartment, and kept watch near the entrance.
The result of such a relationship is pregnancy and the birth of a joint daughter. Now with her daughter in her arms, Larisa stood under the windows, and it was late autumn. There was even a case when she threw a baby under the apartment door.
Nina took the girl and offered to adopt her. But Larisa was not satisfied with this scenario; she took the child away again in order to blackmail her. Nina did not fight all this, throw hysterics, scandals. She packed her things, took the boys and left for Siberia to visit her father. She got a job as a teacher and still works there to this day.
The eldest son, in adolescence, had to go wash the floors at school at night, after a wealthy life. He began to hate Larisa fiercely and dreamed of taking revenge on her. So fifteen years passed.
Larisa and Ruslan became a prominent couple. She even became friends with Nina. The sons began to come to their father. They were a business couple, no matter what they did, money flowed like a river. They built a nice mansion with a swimming pool. The daughter grew up to be a beauty and was her father’s favorite. We loved traveling, the house was always full of guests.
And so, they received a business proposal to open an educational institution, which they decided to do. They sold their house, in which they had invested so much, and opened an educational institution. And soon an offer was received to resume the work of the furniture store, which Ruslan had previously managed. No sooner said than done.
Things were going very well. The institution needed a head teacher. They offered me this job, but I just got together with my husband after a divorce and lived in that house with the inhabitants I wrote about here. Since the case took place in different cities, I had to refuse.
A middle-aged married woman was hired to replace the head teacher. Her name was, like Ruslan’s first wife, Nina. The greedy aunt had her eye on all this goodness. Neither my husband nor my daughter became an obstacle to flirting with my uncle. He didn't really resist. And the fact that the relationship had gone far was no secret to anyone.
She became friends with her eldest son after learning the history of this family. He began to help her. Nina began to suggest that Larisa hire, in her words, good specialists, and fire those who were already working as unable to cope with their responsibilities. Later it became clear that it was her team that was preparing incriminating evidence against Larisa. After all, she was now the director of the educational institution.
Uncle became unrecognizable. He started drinking and lost weight. Very loud scandals, even fights, began to occur. The daughter began to have dreams that Larisa was surrounded by huge black snakes, and laughed like a villain in films. One night, the daughter saw a hooded man in her room, floating through the air, stopping at her bedside and looking at her. There were signs of damage on the face. And Ruslan, who doted on his daughter, invited her to go live and study abroad.
She was shocked. Larisa burst into tears, but could not do anything. No one recognized her as a strong woman. She eventually lost the establishment. Fired for non-payment of taxes. And so, as expected, the uncle announced his departure from the family to Nina. No scandals or tears touched him anymore. Everyone was waiting for how it would end.
And the news comes that my uncle has disappeared. Disappeared without a trace. No traces, no witnesses. The wife assured that when she woke up, he was no longer there. The documents were left at home. She insisted that all her savings had disappeared. As a result, Nina remained to work in the recaptured institution. Larisa was left with nothing, earning a living from one income to another. But there is still no news from my uncle, even though many years have passed. No one hopes to see him alive anymore.

It's hard to call life predictable. However, if you take a closer look, you can see the relationship between a person’s actions and events in his life. This connection is so subtle that it can be difficult to trace. To denote the interdependence of everything that happens in life, the concept “effect” is accepted.

What is the essence of the boomerang effect?

The essence of this effect is as follows: every day a person continuously sends a huge number of “boomerangs” into the world; these can be certain actions or words, feelings or even thoughts. Everything sent sooner or later comes back: angry words thrown in the heat of the moment can come back tomorrow or in five years, they can change and result in deprivation of a bonus or loss of a valuable item.

If you send something good as a boomerang, it will definitely come back in a much larger volume. Negative actions and thoughts thrown like a boomerang return with harsh blows of fate. It’s hard to imagine how many times a day an ordinary person is visited by bad thoughts and emotions. It becomes clear why a huge number of lives and destinies are filled with difficulties and bitterness.

Fact or fiction?

You can doubt it endlessly, but the boomerang effect still works, the main thing is to see the subtle connection between events. “What goes around comes around” is an old saying that perfectly expresses the principle of the boomerang effect. And there are many such phrases originating in antiquity. Even the Bible has words that support the theory that everything comes back.

How to use the boomerang effect to your advantage

If you think sensibly, then it is not difficult to understand the following truth: according to the boomerang law, everything given will sooner or later come back, having changed and increased in volume. It turns out that with the help of the effect you can significantly improve the quality of your life.

The boomerang effect actually works very simply: if something is missing, for example money, you need to give it away. It sounds ridiculous, but that's how it is. If there is a catastrophic shortage of hard coins in the house, you need to go and give half of what you have to those people who are in a more deplorable situation.

Is there not enough love in life? This means you need to give your love to someone. For example, a lonely grandmother next door. You should give sincerely, without at all hoping for a quick return. Of course, everything will come back, but the Universe cares about the attitude with which people do good deeds.